January 21, 2021

Well fuck. Its been rough guys. We are still dealing with court shit with Steve’s kids. It keeps getting pushed off and his ex is putting on a hell of a show for the courts. Lets recap shall we? She started telling the kids they don’t have to listen to me because I’m “not their mom” which caused Andrew to start telling me the same. For months now I have had all 3 children that I am raising remind me on a regular basis that I’m “not their mom”. So that’s been fun. She got fired from her job that she only got because we served her with court papers. Shes pregnant by an abusive asshole that we now have a restraining order against because we do NOT want him around our children (she went along with this and now tells Steve’s kids that her baby doesn’t have a dad). She has a new boyfriend we found out. This concerns us due to the fact that she likes to move in with her boyfriends and she has made some poor decisions in the boyfriend department since she and Steve split up. She is bitching about then fact that our daughter goes to my mothers while Steve and I go to our JOBS like ADULTS and our son goes to the school aged program with Andrew and their classmates. She tells the kids that we get more time with them when it is spit evenly TO THE HOUR on a week by week basis. She complains because she has them all weekend and no time with them during the week. She does not have a job or any responsibility and complains that she actually gets to spend TIME with the kids when she has them while we get an hour in the morning before school and 3 hours before bed with them every day. But shes complaining about her time that she gets… She bitches about their clothing that they come to our house in and wants back every week and then bitches about how we go about making sure she gets them. And now she is trying to drag MY MOTHER into it by telling the kids that we leave our daughter at A STRANGERS HOUSE. That is MY MOTHER. She can go fuck herself. She thinks shes all high and mighty because she sits on her ass and lives off of her mom and does nothing but watch tv all day and thats all she lets the kids do when they’re there. My daughter has 7 CAVITIES because all she feeds them is junk food. We pick them up on Monday Mornings and they are shoving candy in their mouths. She does all of this and then plays it off to the courts like shes a freaking saint and the GAL is fucking buying it. We have given the courts YEARS of proof that this kind of stuff is a pattern. She plays by the rules when she is under a microscope but as soon as all of the home visits are done she turns right back around to the same old shit. I’m sooooo tired of it. And then tonight she starts Bitching Steve out while on her phone call with the kids (which isn’t mandatory BTW) and is swearing at him and yelling at him with the kids sitting right there. I’m afraid for the children. Once she has this baby those kids aren’t going to matter anymore. She has someone new to love her that she won’t have to share, providing the babys father stays in jail. Did I mention he tried to burn down his other Baby Momma’s apartment while she and his kid were still inside it? Great set of parents this kid is going to have. I’m just ready for all of this court shit to be done so I don’t have to keep my mouth shut anymore.

Well. Thanks for letting me bitch and moan. Sometimes I just need to get it out. Its a nice relief.